Dependency can be a pain or joy. Becoming dependent on people brings emotions that are in the negative cause humans are not capable of being solely there and available.
The basic instinct of a human is selfish- To look out for themselves indulge in what gives them pleasure and peace, no matter how temporary. Dependency most times becomes a burden to the recipient. It's too much work, too much responsibility. In times like this, people tend to become dismissive to avoid that weight of responsibility.
Truth is it is wrong to be dependent on a person, it is unfair to put all that weight on a person, selfish to put someone in that position. Dependency can only be total, right, complete and fulfilling in your Creator.
Valerie Gbinije
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