Reflecting is a good thing that humans dismiss most times,it helps to reflect cause it shows you the things that you didn't know existed or the things you ignored along the way.We can move through a phase of life and not be moved by anything or any experience we've had thus far,there would be no impact of any sort to us or from us because we were focused on other things that held no true meaning and missed the bigger picture.
There's always a wonder in our minds why bad things have to happen but it's all with the balance of life,to appreciate things a bit more.The funny truth is no matter how bad a phase you go through ,you would still see humor in some of it.It may not be at that time per say but sometime after the storm has calmed.There are times when you feel invisible, like no one knows about your existence or more like they don't care you exist so wish you could fade into nothingness ,the feeling sucks you down this dark tunnel with no sight of anything and then you loose yourself in the chaos,it's in these times that the mind needs a boost,a kickstart if you will.
An incident of an hour can change a person's whole life forever and so in these moments we try to reflect on the past and know how we got to the point we are,half the times it's all like a haze, you can't pinpoint what brought you to that moment or what made you the person that you are at that point in time.If you find out you've been better after reflecting,you feel a sense of fulfillment,like though things are not the way you want them to be now but there's surety that it will be better tomorrow than it was yesterday.At this time you know that even when you feel the forces are against you,there's been an even greater force for you.
In the unfortunate of instance when you find out that things have gone from bad to worse,it kills your morale even more and makes you question your self worth,still know that it's just you haven't migrated to the next stage yet and your time will come.
just my musings!!!!!
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